Gosh, thank you. That means really a lot you saying that, because that is *exactly* what I'm always aiming for. I'm just so fed up with the trope of women who need to be persuaded into love for their own good because they don't know themselves until they've had a man explain it to them, that I'm determined only to write women who take charge of their own love-life, and of course men who do likewise, and couples who want each other to be just equals.