I didn't! I grant access to everyone (Maybe if we know each other for another 10 years!) and have layers of additional filters for protected posts, real life stuff, people I know in real life, who have stayed at my house, we've been to Cons together, etc. For me "grants access" is my first layer for, basically anyone with a DW account. I can delete you if prefer. It's in no way intended to be reciprocal.