When you look at her, when you brush past her, she's soft and sweet and beautiful and silk.

But if you push too hard, if you offend her, if you hurt her family, the steel that has been resting beneath the silk cuts through the cloth and then you as easily as it did the cloth.

So be cautious and respectful around the women, because they have steel beneath their silk, for they will not bend or break and it will not end well for you if they feel they need to use the steel beneath their silk.