People have their safe haven: for Griffin it's the sports field where Thief is being played.

For my love it's... huh, I never asked what Jan's safe haven is, I should ask him next time I see him.

For me, you ask? My safe haven is the library, because I just love books and reading them until they are finished before I pick up the next one and devour it whole, for knowledge is my quest, obtaining every magic spell there is to know.